Three Cats Cafe at Leon & Lulu, Clawson / Cindy La Ferle
I first met Karen several years ago when she worked for one of my doctors. Now that she's retired, we keep in touch via email and meet for lunch occasionally. One of the things I admire most about Karen is her gift for reaching out to others and initiating friendship.
In fact, I credit her for making sure we've stayed in touch -- and especially for not giving up on me when I've been ill, out of town, or otherwise unable to get together. She's the sort of person who checks in to see how you're feeling, or drops a note when she enjoys something you've written or posted. Not surprisingly, Karen has an active social life and a long list of interesting friends. The more I get to know her, the more I discover how much we have in common, including our political views, favorite vacation spots, and the fact that we're not on Facebook.
According to several friendship experts I've interviewed, lack of regular communication (including failure to initiate social plans) is most often cited as the reason why so many friendships drift apart.
All too often, I'm guilty of saying, "Let's get together soon" -- but later neglect to act on it. Seeing Karen yesterday reminded me of how important it is, no matter how busy we are, to make time for the relationships we value and hope to keep. ~CL